To fix every heart..
Tuesday Oct 10th 2017
07:08 PM

How to handle heartbreak:

1. Remember that nothing worthwhile comes easily, and the fact that they left without remorse should tell you that they weren’t worth your damn time anyway.

2.  Know that your feelings are valid. It is okay to cry. It is okay to have days where all you do is curse their name and then miss them with no shame. It is okay. You are okay. You are coping. 

3. EAT. A LOT.

4. Cry if you need it.

5. Don’t treat your memories with them like a life-preserver. Don’t try to hold on to them, because in actuality, you are trying to hold onto a boat that has already sailed, long gone.

6. Take pieces of paper. To remind yourself why things didn’t work out. To remind yourself why there’s a reason you don’t have their number on your phone anymore. To remind yourself why your mother and father never approved of them. Reminders are good. Reminders will keep you sane. Read this reminder whenever your heart longs for their presence again.

7. Don’t be afraid to laugh until your stomach hurts. Don’t be afraid to love something just because it comes with a risk of loss. And most of all, don’t be afraid to live. To really experience life to the fullest. Everything you did with them, you can do without them. And that is the single key to recovery.”

This experience happened on me actually, and you know it's worth it on me. i don't know about you guys. But just remember life must go on after you are hurting. Easy girl, he will miss you and it will hit him like a truck. If you're sad it's fine because it's human nature after you get your heart broken or whatever but don't let that sadness consumes you. KEEP SHINING!!!!! 💕💗💕💗💕💗❤️💙💙💜💙💚💛


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